My appointment letter arrived today, yay. I have an ultrasound Friday a week away =).
The spotting from yesterday is almost gone, just yucky pink stuff now.
I told a manager about what happened at work yesterday and Vicky got a talking to and apologized (which was more her justifying why she assumed I miscarried, rather than apologizing)
Tomorrow I have another blood test.
And a big thank you to all those who read this, and are suportive, its really nice to hear from you all out there, and I really hope that some people find this informative, or helpful.